I went on a hike this weekend. Well, I
attempted to go on a hike this weekend. With a gentleman we'll also refer to as M, just for consistency's sake. (No no, not texting M, this is a different one.) Now from the first moment of this hike everything was going wrong. It was chillier than we thought, and as we drove into the mountains it got colder and colder. And we were in his jeep, sans top. And the directions to the trail head I got off of the internet seemed to leave out vital information. (As in, drive 3.5 miles, then turn left, then right. then right again. But no distances or road names, hmmm.) We finally found the campground which the internet led me to believe was the trail head, but there was no trail in sight. There were, however, two deer carcasses and the constant sound of distant gunfire. And biting winds. We decided to turn around and just go get lunch instead. But we couldn't stop for lunch because we had his dog. (Who, by the way, must have been freezing, too.) So we drove back to Denver and it started to rain. In the jeep, of course. And to top it all off, I still got sunburned! Because the sun is still strong at 10,000 feet, even under the clouds.
So as you can see, things didn't go exactly as planned. And that is when people's true colors start to show! I am the first to admit that I am a planner, and I tend to get stressed when things don't necessarily go according to plan. (read: getting Mom, Lori, Dianna, and myself all kicked off of a train in England. Or causing Edum and I to miss our train back to Barcelona by a record-setting 24 hours.) I don't always handle it the best, but the adventures always turn in to a good story that we can laugh about years in to the future. So this hike, nothing was going according to plan. And come on, even I can appreciate the humor in
everything going wrong. But apparently not everyone can... and as I apologized for planning what turned in to a disaster of a trip I was told, "Well, I can't blame the weather on you." Buuuut you are blaming me for everything else? Noted.
Later that same day I was asked a question by M. Something along the lines of, "It seems like you base a lot of your decisions on your current financial situation
(um, yes), but if money was no object would your lifestyle change at all? Would you get a new phone? New car? Bigger apartment?"
My answer? Nope, probably not. I'm not a person that craves new things. (I'm still stressing about getting my new couch dirty!) Sure I joke about my sardine-can apartment in an "up-and-coming" neighborhood, my roller-skate Rav4 that just hit 170,000 miles, my phone that is by no means smart. But really? I like all of these things. They serve their purposes, and they serve them well. Will I upgrade? Eventually. But am I in line for the new iToy? No. I'd rather spend my money on experiences. Trips with friends, shows, things I've always wanted to do. Because great memories don't need an upgrade.
(Yes, you can cross-stitch that on a pillow, as long as you give me the credit.)
I fear that was the wrong answer. But at least I was honest!
Photos to come... much love from the Rockies!