So what is match.com if not fantastic blog material? Case in point below, but first let me set the scene. A week or so ago I went out on a first date with a guy from Match.com, we'll call him "M". He seemed a bit shy, but friendly (and yes, I know I can come on a bit strong), but we had an enjoyable evening nonetheless. Last weekend he sends me a text asking if I want to accompany him to a comedy show this weekend. I say yes, and he then confirms plans via text on Thursday night. He then sends me a text asking if I know any good bars in the area to meet up beforehand. This was Thursday evening, and I respond this afternoon... Commence awkward conversation below (all over text unless otherwise noted):
Jill (J) - Ideas for tonight: BarX or BarY - both close to the comedy club
M - What's the story with all the slow responses?
J - Hey now, what's the story with the third degree?
M - Just asking... it has been like a minimum of 2 hours on all texts... not something I'm accustomed to
J - Your stopwatch must be getting quite a work out! I'm not tethered to my phone, add it to my list of flaws (this one did not take 2 hours, for the record)
M - As mentioned, I do not have cable or internet so I understand the whole not being connected thing... but 1.5 days to respond to a simple question seems excessive, yes?
J - I don't know you well enough to know if you are joking or scolding me...
M - Neither really, just seeing if that is the level of responsiveness that I would be signing on for if this thing goes past a couple of dates...
J - Wow. Well, it is something I know I should work on. But a phone call can usually remedy that, too. I'm not a child of the texting generation!
**He calls - asks if we should continue this conversation over a beer at one of the above mentioned bars. I say sure, we agree to meet at 7. Meanwhile I immediately regret my decision, and frantically call assorted girlfriends asking them if I would be a terrible person for cancelling so last minute. I don't really think that I need to defend my actions after only one date, and really, there's nothing here to salvage - so what exactly are we going to talk about?
As I am on the phone I get a text:
M - This place isn't too dressy is it?
(24 minutes pass)
M - Well either way, I'm rocking a t-shirt and tennies, so heads up.
Needless to say, I cancelled the date - you guessed it, via text. (It is his preferred method of communication, after all.) His response? Good Luck.
Ohhhhh my. Katie said it best - "Bullet. Dodged."
Why not end with a few photos? Trying to get back into my project 365...
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| 79 - I officially have a place in LoHi now! |
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| 80 - Moving things in slowly. Apparently my vases were in the first box |
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| 81 - Sarah discovered the secret to the Skittle machine. Why pay a quarter? |
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| 82 - Driving home with flowers in my cup holder from my awesome teammate at work. Love her! |
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| 83 - Look who is in town - Yay! Now move here!! |